Sex Toys – Vibrators and Positioning for Pleasure

More and more, sex toys are becoming mainstream in bringing a little extra oomph into sex lives. Even more conservative catalogs, like the nostalgic Vermont Country Store are starting to offer basic sexual aids. So, how can you use these sex toys to benefit your own sex life? The most common way to enhance your experiences is through using a vibrator. Vibrators are ideal for foreplay, especially when applied to the most sensitive parts, such as  a woman’s clitoris, nipples, and labia. G-spot vibrators are especially designed to reach those sensitive internal areas that aren’t always easy to stimulate. For any toys you use for penetration, ideally you want ones with a soft surface, and you want to use plenty of lube. Lube can also enhance sensation when used externally, and also provides a moist and sensuous experience.

Vibrators are extremely versatile in spicing up bedroom play. While many associate vibrators with foreplay, or solo stimulation, couples can also use them to enhance the experience in various positions during sex itself.

One of the easiest ways to bring a little extra stimulus into your sex play is with a vibrating cock ring. The man simply slips it on his penis and turns it on. It stimulates him while also stimulating any part it presses against for his partner. This means that even in the standard Missionary position, it presses against the clitoris, providing extra vibrating stimulation for her, while sending pulsations through his entire package. It works really well with the female on top, as well. Cock rings come in many makes and styles, including inexpensive “disposable” rings, which allow you to experiment before making a commitment to a more deluxe model.

Another easy way by using sex toys to get more out of your sexual play is by using a vibrator externally during sexual penetration to enhance sensation. You might want to try doggy style, with the man holding a vibrator against the clitoris.

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Either he can use the vibrator, while entering from behind, or the woman can use one hand to manipulate the vibrator to get the best stimulation, leaving her partner to concentrate on thrusting. By having control of the vibrator, she can find the exact position that gives the greatest pleasure, or change it around to experiment as sex proceeds. If maintaining position during doggy style sex is challenging, a clitoral stimulator also works well with spooning.  With the spoon position, neither party has to worry about not having a secure grip while thrusting or becoming tired or losing stability while balancing on knees and one hand. Smaller bullet vibrators work quite well for clitoral stimulation in this position, as do egg vibrators.

Toys also work well in connection with oral sex. Either sex can use a vibrator to enhance oral stimulation, whether for cunnilingus or fellatio. In cunnilingus, a curved g-spot stimulator (dildo) or g-spot vibrator can be used to provide internal stimulation, while the man provides clitoral stimulation with the mouth and tongue. In fellatio, extra sensations can be provided by the woman holding a vibrator against her cheek, providing stimulation beyond what she can provide with her tongue.

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Of course, turnabout is fair play. Women can control their partner’s stimulation, too. The reverse cowgirl position, sitting on top and facing toward the man’s legs, allows a woman to stimulate her partner’s scrotum with her vibrator, stoking slowly, resulting in intense sensations.  The perineum, the sensitive area between the scrotum and anus, is also very sensitive, and can be treated similarly.

You can work into the use of toys during sex by introducing them early in the game. Start slowly, using toys during foreplay, perhaps stimulating the nipples and clitoris, then experiment with adding them to sex itself, when you feel comfortable to do so. It can add a whole new dimension to your sex play!